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A Candid Conversation with Psychologist and Parent Advocate, Dr. Tade Akere

July 09, 2023 • Lola Dada-Olley • Episode 4

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In this episode, we speak with Dr. Tade Akere, a mother, wife, businesswoman turned psychologist and advocate. She is the mother of an adult autistic son and a neurodivergent and mental health advocate serving patients through her Illinois based practice. She is also the host of the webseries Dr. Tade Talks and the author of the book, No! Not My Son!: An African Mother's Journey Through Life with Autism.

In this episode, we walk through her family's autism journey, cultural stigma associated with a diagnosis within her Nigerian-American household, how she decided to enter the field of psychology after becoming a parent caregiver and the advice she gives others on the journey (along with some other nuggets).

I appreciated her candor and hope you get something out of this episode. This episode is also available in video on YouTube.

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